欢迎观看本期的公众演讲，将目光转向光华美高，上海光华美高杨浦校区公众演讲主题：做自己还是别人？
Is it More Important to be Yourself or be Like Others ？
对大多数人而言，人生都是很模糊的概念，无论是少年懵懂时、而立之初时或者耄耋之年，人在每个阶段都会思考人生，也会关注”自我“的发展～
人生每个阶段精彩纷呈，离不开“自己”的参与，如何解读也因人而异。
光华美高杨浦校区就此类话题拟定了第三期的公众演讲主题：“Is it More Important to be Yourself or be Like Others ？”
来观摩观摩学生们是如何看待人在生命长河中，对”自己“or “他人”的理解。
#01 陈沐远
We should be ourselves. Although it has many shortcomings, is pure.
We should also communicating with each other to correct your shortcomings and learn advantages from others
///陈沐远
第一位上台表达观点的陈沐远认为，我们应该做我们自己。尽管每个人都有缺点，但生而有残缺却也很纯粹。
所谓“人之初，性本善”的另一种解读，大意也如此，生命起源本来就是善意而为的，成长的环境决定了他的性格和思考人生的方向。
演讲中，陈沐远提到做自己的重要性、独特性。他认为人与人之间可以通过互相沟通，补足缺点，学习他人的有点；更重要的也是需要先取悦自己，才能照顾人生，选择做自己比选择做别人眼中的”人“更重要。
#02 吴奕璠
Freedom is more important than security.
Eg. Mao Zedong and Red Army Finish the Long March.The Different Period of the Long March.
In October, 1934, after the failure of the fifth counter-campaign against encirclement and suppression, the Red Army, the main force of the central government, was forced to carry out a strategic shift to get rid of the encirclement and pursuit of the Kuomintang army, and began the Long March.、
In January, 1935, Zunyi Conference began to establish the correct Marxist line with Mao Zedong as the main representative, which saved the Red Army in an extremely crisis situation.
After that, the Red First Front Army, under the command of Mao Zedong, adopted flexible and changeable tactics, outsmarted the West, and crossed Chishui four times.
///吴奕璠
The revolutionaries which included Mao Zedong gave up their comfortable life, stayed away from their hometown, and were not afraid of offering rewards. Hard fighting and difficult conditions meant that they gave up security and fought for their own freedom, the liberation of the people, and political democracy (revolutionary cause). The importance of freedom is vividly reflected. Only by daring to sacrifice, can we realize the revolutionary cause of extraordinary significance and win more precious freedom, democracy and independence for ourselves and the people.
///Public Speaking
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吴奕璠给我们分享了一个全新角度理解该命题——当我们在探讨“个人”和“他人”谁更重要的时候，是否是探讨“自由”与“安全”的命题？
这是一个非常具有挑战的开放话题，当他借红军长征的意义，给大家分享了一段颇具历史意义的故事；这个时候于“个人”而言，或许我们该思考，什么才是最重要的——安全 或是自由 ？
他举例毛主席与众多革命者们放弃了他们舒适的生活，远离家乡，不畏艰辛的为人民战斗，放弃了安全，为人民的解放和政治民主（革命事业）而战的故事。在这里，自由的重要性得到了生动的体现。只有敢于牺牲“个人“主义，我们才能实现具有非凡意义的革命事业，为人民赢得更宝贵的自由、民主和独立！
#03 曾士豪
It is important to be yourself.
Eg. I decide to do the homework, my friend ask me to play basketball.
///曾士豪
Do your self-things instead of doing other things that you don’t interested in.
Do the things thar decided by what others do instead of what you like will let you become not what you are.
Every one is unique. However, this doesn’t means we can not care others.
To be a people pleaser maybe will let you fall into the country of other peoples’ mind.
///Public Speaking
2022
曾士豪在演讲中分享他的观点：每个人都是独一无二的，坚持本心，立足当下，这或许是一种弥足珍贵的能力。
德国哲学家莱布尼茨说“世界上没有完全相同的两片树叶”，人虽生而独特，但并非意味着你可以不顾及他人，生在社会环境中，我们总要与其他的人相处。
曾士豪在演讲结束语中概括总结说“做一个讨喜的人也不是什么坏事。人也虽各有不同，如果想要被友善以待，就需要先善待他人。”
金无足赤，人无完人，作为个体，我们需要不断地为求知、探索而活着，不是为了活着而死去，追寻独一无二的个人价值才是“个人”存在的真正意义。
#04 胡家东
To be as the people others like is very hard.
If you want to make yourself comfortable, be yourself.
///胡家东
It is actually a staying in of your comfort zone or out.
You will eventually become what you can be. Not simply about being yourself or being someone else, but finding the zone where you fit in best.
Eg.
I dance to close the distance with others, but it does not works because it’s out of my instinct which makes the dance strange. So I stop doing that.
I will get closer to the person if he makes me feel comfortable or approachable, and stay away if he makes me uncomfortable.
Stay within your comfort zone and get as close as you can to the person you want to be without making yourself uncomfortable.
成为别人喜欢的人是很难的。如果你想让自己舒服，可以做你自己！最终会成为你能成为的人。
学生胡家东在演讲中表达了一个观点，—— “你最终会成为你能成为的人；这不仅仅是做你自己或别人，而是找到一块舒适区。”
///Public Speaking
2022
演讲中他跟大家分享了关于他的例子，“当初我跳舞是为了拉近与他人的距离，但这并没有太大作用，因为这是我的本能，也让舞蹈变得奇怪。所以我不再这样做了。”
如果做一件事让你感到舒服或者能够让你感到平易近人，那我会更主动靠近；如果这件事让我不舒服，那建议你远离。
呆在你的舒适区内，尽可能靠近你想成为的人，而不会让自己感到不舒服。
与其陷入讨好别人的困境，不如选择一个让你舒适的圈子，无论是交友或者学习生活。
写在最结尾：
It is much more important to be oneself than anything else.
一个人使能自己成为自己，比什么重都要。无论你选择先做“自己“还是“他人“，止于适度和有所保留或许是最好与自己和解、与他人相处最佳方式。